The Thinker - Exploring Relationships and Life's Puzzles

Who is God?  | The Meaning and Concept of God |  Understanding Beyond Religion Who is God? This question has sparked philosophical and religious debate for millennia. The answer to this topic would vary from religion to religion depending on their beliefs. But we will try to understand it logically without relating it to any religion so that it appeals to the mind rather than spoon-fed beliefs. Alot of questions are supposed to arise. Let's begin the thoughts that 'should' surround: Who is God? Simply said, God is an Energy that created everything out of itself, whatever we can think of, from Nothingness, like astronomical objects, life form, mind, etc. God is the ultimate creator, and we will refer to it as the God or Energy or the Creator. Now, the list of Questions(Q), Answers(A), and Thoughts(T) arises: Q) Did the Creator create whatever it liked, haphazardly? A) Obviously No, all of it is well planned and well thought of, fr

Why do good things happen to bad people? | Why good people suffer and bad people enjoy life? |  Exploring Life's Unfairness | Why is Life Unfair? Ever wondered why good people face challenges while others seem to get away with bad deeds?  This question has puzzled humanity for centuries. People doing bad deeds are often seen living the best of their lives. It looks like all good things are attracted to them and there is no power to judge their actions. On the other hand, people who are genuinely good are seen struggling and going through pain. People who are humble, willing to do good for others lack the resources. Why is it so? Why this law of nature seems unfair? This doubt arises in everyone's mind when they try to become good and suffer.  Let's begin the thoughts that 'should' surround: 1) Stop comparing, getting disheartened and get clear with certain concepts given below. Considering Current life in Isolation: The current life is NOT to be consi

Who should be our Ideal? | Whom to follow in Life?  Choosing the Ultimate Ideal: Exploring Divine Guidance for Life  Who is your Role Model? People generally have the tendency to consider someone as their ideal so as to follow and become like that person in life. People choose Celebrities, historical figures, successful individuals, Parents, Elders, Leaders, Sportsperson, etc. as their ideal, but is it the best notion? Can there be a source of infinite wisdom and perfect character to guide you? Let's begin the thoughts that 'should' surround: Who do people choose as an ideal? Mostly this decision is taken considering the behavior, qualities, achievements, etc. The crux being people need someone to showcase certain level of qualities to become a follower. Suppose you have found such a person in life. But can't there be a better ideal? Can't there be someone with such qualities but at a higher level? Is it not that humans are flawed? Have you chosen the optimu

What is the Purpose of Life and Soul? | Meaning of Life and Existence | Unveiling the Journey to Enlightenment  What is the meaning of Life? This age-old question has puzzles humanity for millennia. This is a broad topic and very subjective to different human minds and their level of understanding. So many people believe that the purpose is to Enjoy, Live as you Wish, Have Fun, My life My rules, You get only One Life, Experience everything Irrespective of Good or Bad, Do whatever you Like, seek pleasures, live on own terms, etc. Are these the Real answers? Can there be a Different answer? Can there be a connection to something greater? Doesn't it feel too Small of a purpose for something so Big as a life? Think Deeper, Think Broader, Zoom out. Can there be a Higher purpose? Let's begin the thoughts that "should" surround: Heard of Soul? What is it? A Soul is an Energy that is present in every living being. It's a Piece or a Fragment of the Ultimate Divine

Why to practice Gratitude? | The Life-Changing Power of Gratitude | Benefits and Meaning of Gratitude Feeling stressed or overwhelmed? Gratitude might be the key to unlocking a happier, more fulfilling life. It a great tool to take care of mental health , keeping the person down to earth and humble. Practicing gratitude is a great way to lower the expectations, limiting the unending wants, connecting to the divine, and living life smoothly. Let's begin the thoughts that "should" surround: What is gratitude? It can be said as being grateful and thankful to every minute positive part of your life. It is not necessarily to be expressed through speech every time but to be felt internally every time. People underestimate it by focusing on the negative aspects of life, but gratitude can do wonders. It's an internal shift in perspective, acknowledging your blessings rather than dwelling on what's missing. When you practice gratitude, you'll start realizin

Single vs Relationship: Pros and Cons Analyzed | Which is better, Single or Relationship? Finding your Perfect Match. Ever wondered if it's better to be single or in relationship? The question of eternity is whether a person better off single or in a relationship. And it is enough to keep a person perplexed for a long time. The answer to this question is very very subjective and people need to analyze what suits them best for the time being depending on their personality and attributes.  This article will also answer what qualities you need to develop, to live the fullest of both sides.  Both the lives have certain pre-requisites, advantages and disadvantages. Let's begin the thoughts that "should" surround: To stay Single: Pre-requisite qualities to possess: 1) Not afraid of being alone. 2) Does not long much to have a human being by their side. 3) Enjoys own company. 4) Seek Peace and Quiet: Doesn't mind if life gets boring sometimes. If these qual

How to care for someone? | Unlocking Love: Understanding the Right Way to Care in Relationships | The right way of caring. Love Languages Unfolded: Caring Right in Relationships Do you ever feel like your partner isn't showing you enough love? You're not alone! Many couples struggle with the "caring gap," where one feels neglected. But what if the secret to true connection lies in understanding your own needs and your partner's love language? There is a common problem in which one person in a relationship feels like not been taken care of by the other. To address this issue, let's have a look at the hierarchy which "should" be followed when it comes to caring for one another in a relationship. The order of living the life should be as below: 1) Firstly, e mphasize the importance of individual growth and happiness in healthy relationships. Cultivate Inner Peace: a) The Girl should help herself, care for herself and be happy in herself. b) The