Interesting stories to sort relationship | Relationship problem solving | Friction in relation.
So many people are having friction in their relationship. To address a part of it, we have two existing stories. And we will be giving them a New Perspective from a relationship point of view.
Lets begin the thoughts that "should" surround:
1st story: The Rabbit and the Tortoise Race.
Forget the original story, lets relate it with the relation.
Rabbit and Tortoise both are the participants of the relationship.
Rabbit being the one with Quick Fate/Fast Actions/Quick Progress and Good Intent.
Tortoise being the one with Slow Fate/Time Taker/Slow Progress but also with Good Intent (which is a must).
Track is the Life which is Not a Race but a coarse course which is not same for everyone and the goal is to cross the certain finishing line beyond which you could stay together forever.
Story goes like this: Rabbit crossed the finishing line first.
Then what?
Rabbit has to WAIT for the tortoise to reach there to move along with the partner. And this waiting...... is difficult. With passage of time, it makes the Rabbit Impatient, Restless and hence Friction in the relation.
Remedies?.
There are many: Continue fighting, Keep arguing, Remain Disappointed, Live with Friction and ultimately End the relation.
Are these even remedies to a problem in a good and deserving long term relation?.. Not in the slightest.
The true remedy is Rabbit have to be Still, Calm and Patient (which is really a true test in these times vis-a-vis tackling own life problems, no doubt.). Rabbit needs to put faith in the latter and be sympathetic, empathetic, supportive and encouraging.
2nd story: Person falling in a mud pit.
What signifies the mud pit?.
On the same lines as the first story, the quicker participant reaches a certain level, grows impatient, considers this part of relation as converted into a mud pit and considers himself/herself fallen into it.
Story goes like this: The person drowning in the mud tries to tackle and come out of the suffocating part to bring it back to a good and healthy relation.
But how?
By being Restless, Haphazard, Unstable, Kicking, Moving about here and there, Fighting with it, trying to overpower it. These are the fights, arguments and friction in the relations and if these are continued, the mud is going to do what it's supposed to do, i.e. Engulf and End the relation.
Remedies?
Literally, to get out of it, the person needs to be Still, Calm and Patient (which is really a true test in these times vis-a-vis tackling own life problems, no doubt.). Person needs to have faith and hang on to the only helping hand and support available in the form of a wooden plank (the other participant).
Two Stories.!!!
Same Conclusion.!!!
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